Thanks for the feedback, I remember when I was a young man and after a full on ejaculation I still oozed a bit of sticky fluid for a while, which if it was a “quicky” meant that it would mess my underwear, if we could go to sleep it was not a problem. Now with the retrograde ejaculation all the semen shoots into my bladder and I pee it out. Brenda also does not like the precum I ooze before I penetrate her but Sue loved it, especially the taste. I don’t understand why some women are pt off by the precum, when I feel and taste a woman is wet in her pussy it arouses me considerably and gives me a couple of throbs in my cock.
I guess it's me who doesn't like it. I now know how a woman usually feels when she gets creampied deep and has to deal with semen oozing out for hours after. With my retrograde ejaculations, that is how it is with me. It just slowly oozes from my penis afterward and makes a mess
Does she not appreciate that you “don’t make such a mess “ when you have retrograde ejaculation? Brenda certainly does, I had never thought about it like that before but Brenda probably also has germophobia of a sort, she has to get up almost immediately after I have cum and rushes to the bathroom, squats in the bath and washes her vagina out. Sue and I loved lying in whatever position we had finished in and enjoying the slippery, slimy, warm, wet feeling around our genitals and on the bed sheets while we enjoyed that wonderful post orgasmic bliss and often fall asleep like that.
I'm sorry she feels so unattractive. Continue to reassure her might or might not help. I think that might be an issue with my wife too. She isn't fat, but has definitely gained weight in the past year
thanks for this detailed response. I'm beginning to think the reason my wife avoids sex is her germophobia. I too have experienced the retrograde ejaculation from BPH medication... now I take it every other day and it works just as well and the cum comes out mostly right
That’s another thing, she has decided that she’s too fat and unattractive and does not want me to see her. She insists that I put the light off before she takes her clothes off so fucking during the daytime is out. I agree that daytime sex is awesome. My wife unfortunately passed away 15 years ago, we often made love in the daytime, not always in the bedroom, and that also added a more exciting aspect. Fucking outside was always a favourite and “quickies “ were usually in the daytime. I often woke up in the morning with a hard on and had to just get on top of Sue and quickly fuck her before work was amazing. As I mentioned I have to take Viagra now which works extremely well, but also because of my age, to stop me having to get up 20 times a night for a pee I take Uromax but a side effect is retrograde ejaculation, while I can still feel myself orgasming the same no semen comes out of my cock but shoots backwards into my bladder. The big advantage of this is that Brenda does not get a cream pie and because she is also OCD germophobic she is very happy that she does not have to clean up.